The myth of must-have penetration

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The myth of must-have penetration

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Lucy O'Hagan

older couple CR Esther Ann on Unsplash
The discourse around libido starts from the assumption that the partner with the reduced or poor libido is the person with the problem, and therefore is the one who needs treatment [image: Esther Ann on Unsplash]

Could we maybe change the libido narrative? Lucy O’Hagan considers the options

I recently went to a very interesting talk about libido. The female specialist who gave the talk was excellent, with an up-to-date view of the literat